Question 1

Can I bring a guest/date?

Accepted Answer

Unfortunately, due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. Plus ones are therefore by invitation only. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP.

Question 2

Are kids or babies allowed?

Accepted Answer

In order to allow parents a well-deserved evening off, we have chosen for our wedding ceremony and reception to be an adult-only occasion. We encourage you to use this as a date night to get out and have some fun!

Question 3

What is the dress code?

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Wedding ceremony/reception: Dress to impress in your best formal attire. We kindly ask that gentlemen wear a tuxedos and bow ties, and ladies wear floor-length gowns. Please no jeans/denim and ladies should avoid wearing any shades of white, cream, or ivory. Check out our 'Dress code' page for some inspiration!

Welcome tea ceremony: We look forward to seeing you in your cocktail attire. We kindly ask that gentlemen wear a suit or blazer with a button down shirt, no tie and ladies wear a knee or midi length dress, snazzy jumpsuits or elegant separates. A traditional áo dài* is encouraged, but not necessary. Please avoid wearing red. 
Check out our 'Dress code' page for some inspiration!

Wedding day 5k: Whatever you feel comfortable in! We encourage athleisure-wear and sneakers.

Question 4

Do you have a registry?

Accepted Answer

In lieu of traditional gifts, we kindly ask for contributions to our honeymoon and home renovations fund, which can be found at the following website: 
https://www.zola.com/registry/vanmillerwedding(https://www.zola.com/registry/vanmillerwedding)

As we live in the city, package security can be tricky (pesky porch pirates!), so we kindly ask that no physical gifts be sent to our home. However, if you feel moved to send something, please use the following secure mailing address:
33 Belton St
Stanhope, NJ 07874

Question 5

When is the RSVP deadline?

Accepted Answer

RSVP's are due on August 8th, 2025. For any changes, please email the bride and groom at vanmillerfamily@gmail.com

Question 6

Do you have a hotel room block?

Accepted Answer

For your convenience, a block of rooms have been reserved at a special rate at the following hotels.

SOFITEL RITTENHOUSE SQUARE
120 South 17th Street, Philadelphia, PA 19103
Rooms rates starting at $205 per room
877-411-7634 and reference 'Van Miller wedding room block'
Click here to book Sofitel online directly (https://book.passkey.com/go/11725VMWB)

KIMPTON PALOMAR
117 South 17th Street, Philadelphia, PA 19103
Room rates starting at $169** per room
1-800-KIMPTON and reference our group code 'VNV'
Click here to book Kimpton online directly(https://www.ihg.com/kimptonhotels/hotels/us/en/find-hotels/select-roomrate?fromRedirect=true&qSrt=sBR&qIta=99801505&icdv=99801505&qSlH=PHLPP&qRms=1&qAdlt=1&qCiD=07&qCiMy=102025&qCoD=09&qCoMy=102025&qGrpCd=VNV&qAAR=6CBARC&qRtP=6CBARC&setPMCookies=true&qSHBrC=KI&qDest=117%20South%2017th%20Street,%20Philadelphia,%20PA,%20US&srb_u=1&qChAge=&qRmFltr=)
****NOTE: when booking online, a $28/night Guest Amenity fee will show, but within the 'description' section, it should mention that this is fee is waived, as you are booking through our room block.

Question 7

Will transportation be provided?

Accepted Answer

Wedding ceremony/reception: Yes. Complimentary shuttles will start boarding in front of Sofitel Rittenhouse Square at 2:30pm for a 2:45pm departure. Return shuttles will depart Glen Foerd at 10pm.

Welcome tea ceremony: No transportation will be provided for this event.

Wedding day 5k: No transportation will be provided for this event.

Question 8

Will there be parking?

Accepted Answer

Wedding ceremony/reception: There is complimentary valet parking at Glen Foerd. We encourage guests staying in downtown Philadelphia to either leverage the complimentary shuttle we are providing from the Sofitel Rittenhouse Square and Kimpton Palomar, or to utilize your preferred ride-share app.

Welcome tea ceremony: There is limited parking in the German Society of Pennsylvania's lot, and limited street parking on Spring Garden Street. We encourage guests to utilize your preferred ride-share app.

Wedding day 5k: The race and walk will begin at Sofitel Rittenhouse Square. Limited street parking is available, or you can pay to valet your car at the Sofitel Rittenhouse Square or a nearby parking garage.

After party: Limited street parking is available. You can also valet your car at the Kimpton Palomar, or park at a nearby parking garage.

Question 9

What do I do if I can't make it?

Accepted Answer

You will be missed dearly! If you can not make it, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "not attending" so we can plan accordingly. Thank you!

Question 10

Will there be an open bar?

Accepted Answer

Wedding ceremony/reception: Yes, drinks are on us, but the hangover is on you!

Welcome tea ceremony: Yes, beer and wine will be served during this event.

Wedding day 5k: No alcohol will be served at this event.

After party: Yes, drinks are on us, but the hangover is on you!

Question 11

Will anything be outdoors?

Accepted Answer

Wedding ceremony/reception: As of November 5th, the ceremony will still be outdoors, so please dress accordingly. The reception will be indoors and cocktail hour will be a mixture of both! If last minute rain should occur, both the ceremony and cocktail hour will be moved indoors.

Welcome tea ceremony: Indoors only.

Wedding day 5k: Outdoors only. This is a rain or shine event!

After party: Indoors only.

Question 12

Can I take pictures?

Accepted Answer

Wedding ceremony/reception: We are having an unplugged ceremony, meaning that once the ceremony begins, we ask that all phones be put away and silenced. We want everyone to be fully present with us and for our photographers to their job seamlessly. Once the ceremony is over, feel free to take as many pictures as you'd like and don't forget to share them with us!

Welcome tea ceremony: We encourage you to take as many pictures as you'd like!

Wedding day 5k: We encourage you to take as many pictures as you'd like!

After party: We encourage you to take as many pictures as you'd like!

Question 13

What is a tea ceremony?

Accepted Answer

Please head to our 'Tea Ceremony' page on this website for more information on what a tea ceremony is and what you can expect.

Question 14

What will the weather be like?

Accepted Answer

Philadelphia weather can be unpredictable in November, ranging from mid 70's to high 30's. Please be sure to check your preferred weather app for the weather outlook prior to your travels.

Question 15

Do you have any recommendations for where to eat, points of interest or things to do?

Accepted Answer

Yes! We recommend visiting the ‘Things to Do’ page on this website, where we’ve compiled all a list of fun things to do around the city.

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